Supporting a trans or nonbinary child can feel like uncharted territory, but you’re not alone. At Out Youth, we’re here to help families create safe, affirming spaces where their kids can thrive. Discover practical ways to listen, learn, and celebrate your child while building a brighter future together.
To celebrate National Coming Out Day, we had the privilege of sitting down with Jaryn Holbrook Janeway, MBA (they/them), Out Youth’s Director of Programs & Operations, and co-author of Trans+: Love, Sex, Romance, and Being You. Jaryn shared their powerful coming out journey, the challenges they faced, and the advice they have for those on the cusp of their own coming out experience.
"Coming out is not a singular experience," Jaryn told us. "We have to come out over and over again. While I first came out at 14, I’ve had to come out countless times since then—about my gender identity, my evolving understanding of myself, and more."
For Jaryn, the act of coming out wasn't just about sharing their identity—it was a continuous process of self-discovery. "What I'm coming out into at almost 40 is an understanding that I've been doing gender for everyone else. I wasn’t doing it for me." They emphasize that while the journey can be challenging, it’s ultimately about finding peace within ourselves and embracing the life we want to live.
As we celebrate Trans Day of Visibility, we are reminded of the incredible resilience and strength of the transgender and gender non-conforming individuals in our community. This day is a testament to their courage and determination to live authentically, despite the challenges they may face. At Out Youth, we stand in solidarity with our transgender community members, providing a safe and inclusive space where they can thrive and be celebrated for who they are.
Trans Day of Visibility is not just a day on the calendar; it is a call to action. It is a reminder that visibility matters, and that by amplifying the voices of transgender individuals, we can challenge stereotypes and promote acceptance and understanding. Join us in celebrating Trans Day of Visibility and in supporting the rights and visibility of transgender individuals everywhere.
